Women are amazing. Dating
them shouldn't be a nightmare.

"The biggest problem with dating is that people are trying to find the right partner instead of focusing on being the right partner."
-Dr. Sarah Kyle

Welcome to Get Dateable

A space for women who date women—and are ready to do it better. If you’re successful in most areas of your life but dating feels like a disaster zone, you’re not alone. Tired of:‍

  • The endless swipe spiral?
  • Ghosting (and the pit in your stomach that follows)?
  • Wondering if there are any quality women left?


Yeah, we’ve been there. Let’s fix it.


We’re not a dating app.

We’re two women (and longtime daters) who love women, and we’re on a mission to help you:

  • Become your most dateable self
  • Navigate the wild world of lesbian dating
  • Have more fun and less frustration


Here’s What We’ve Got (So Far):

The FREE Dateability Assessment
A 5-minute quiz to identify the blind spots that might be keeping you single. Get personalized results + tips you can actually use.

Take Our Free Dateability Assessment

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The Dateable AF Podcast
A funny, informative, and occasionally spicy look at what it really takes to date women successfully. (Listen while you're swiping—we won’t judge.)
Coming Soon


More to Come

We're dreaming up the community you've been asking for—one that’s smart, inclusive, and full of women supporting women. Until then, start with the quiz and the pod. We’re so glad you’re here.

Want to be part of our future community?

We know women are craving better ways to meet other high-quality women—we are too. That’s why we’re building a community just for you. But we don’t want to guess what you need—we want to hear it straight from you.Tell us what kind of scene would feel valuable, supportive, and real. Share your thoughts, and you’ll be first in line when we open the doors.

Click here to send us your ideas—we’re listening.  
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What women are saying...

Previews of the Dateable AF Podcast are so smart and funny! I've already learned a lot and I can't wait for the next episodes to come out. Our community has been needing something like Get Dateable and the Dateable AF Podcast for a long time! Rachel and Sarah are perfect for this role.

J.C.

Single lesbian, age 46

I love the whole concept of “Get Dateable,” but I am especially impressed with the “dateability” assessment Dr. Kyle created. It’s a comprehensive tool to evaluate an individual’s overall health and well-being, efficiently zeroing in on areas that may be holding someone back from the successful relationship they desire. Her model is going to save people a tremendous amount of time, money and general anguish when it comes to dating.

J. Bosarge

Ph.D. Clinical Psychologist

I’ve been very successful in every area of my life except romantic relationships. It's so hard to find quality women, and the apps just aren't getting it right. I love what Get Dateable is envisioning for our community and I can't wait to see where it goes! The Dateability Assessment is such a great tool and I really want to meet other women who are putting this knowledge into practice.

Stay in the loop

You want to stay informed without getting spammed. We want to stay connected with you. We would love to send you occasional dating tips and updates about what's going on in the Get Dateable community. Join our email list to stay connected.

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About the Assessment

You're someone who wants to know yourself better. Our dateability assessment will show you how well you’re doing with physical self-care, emotional stability, communication, community, passion, confidence, financial fitness, and being a good human.

You Want to Meet Other Women Like You

You're standing by, waiting for us to open the Get Dateable membership program so you can make some connections. Join our email list so you can get one of the first invitations!

You Want to Laugh, Learn, and Be Entertained

Listen and subscribe to our Dateable AF Podcast. We're chatting about all things related to women dating women, plus interviewing some amazing guests.

Let Us Know What Kind of Support You Need

Get Dateable was designed for women, by women. We want to create a community just for you. Please message us and let us know how we can help you make dating less brutal.